I think sometimes, if a person really likes someone else, or is really attracted to them (and not just in passing), that maybe they don't want to approach you in public with all their friends staring and gawking. It could be that they are shy and don't want others to know their secret liking of larger women, but it could also be that they are modest, shy, etc. I try to think of the good. Sometimes, it's all you can do to keep your chin up! You're very young Caught, it won't take long at all more...
I think sometimes, if a person really likes someone else, or is really attracted to them (and not just in passing), that maybe they don't want to approach you in public with all their friends staring and gawking. It could be that they are shy and don't want others to know their secret liking of larger women, but it could also be that they are modest, shy, etc. I try to think of the good. Sometimes, it's all you can do to keep your chin up! You're very young Caught, it won't take long at all for you to find someone special. Just keep being your outgoing, happy self. The rest will fall into place. True less...
I don't know. I sometimes have mixed feelings toward things like that. Like what if they're looking at someone behind me or looking at the person I'm with. HOW DEVISTATINGLY embarrasing!
But then again, there isn't much to lose.. There's too many opportunities lost and could've been a good time.
I wish there were more guys out there than can honestly just think on their own.. I know, I shouldn't be with someone that can't stand on their own anyway..
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Groot,
Thanks for your opinion.
I don't know. I sometimes have mixed feelings toward things like that. Like what if they're looking at someone behind me or looking at the person I'm with. HOW DEVISTATINGLY embarrasing!
But then again, there isn't much to lose.. There's too many opportunities lost and could've been a good time.
I wish there were more guys out there than can honestly just think on their own.. I know, I shouldn't be with someone that can't stand on their own anyway..
Like I said,
I'm quite confused about these things..
I guess maybe I'd like a guy to make the first move?..
I'm pretty indecisive, as you can already tell about me. =X less...
I am of a totally different mind set. If you see someone and you see them looking at you too.
Why not wave, stand up and say hi. Start a conversation even.
What's the worst that could happen?
Well when I did it the girls friends sat back down with her, I talked for awhile and the friends were very rude.
But I did it. I didn't have to wonder.
If a woman came up to me and wanted to get my number, I'd offer her a cup of coffee and my time. You never know
Yeah, it's weird because like I don't know whether it's their environment that makes them think its weird to like a bigger woman, but they just never come up to me.
I don't want to go up to them because.. yeah, like you said, "bad intentions" lol. But I usually go up to the people that seem pretty introverted and I still get turned down (sometimes nicely and sometimes not so.)
And I do understand about preferences, that's why I don't mind more...
Hey Andy,
Thanks for the comment!
Yeah, it's weird because like I don't know whether it's their environment that makes them think its weird to like a bigger woman, but they just never come up to me.
I don't want to go up to them because.. yeah, like you said, "bad intentions" lol. But I usually go up to the people that seem pretty introverted and I still get turned down (sometimes nicely and sometimes not so.)
And I do understand about preferences, that's why I don't mind as much anymore if they don't. Just wondering when will it be when I get what I want and he likes me the way I am.
Speaking personally, I have found that when a wonam makes the first move, it frequently means she has bad intentions.
Contrary to what I was brought up to believe, women are very exploitative, and men are not all keen on leaping into bed at the first chance. Some are actually faithful.
Also, men do have preferences, and may not go for other types (not just legs, breasts, but height, shape of face, race, etc).
Keep trying- you dont want them all, a few good ones will keep you very happ more...
Speaking personally, I have found that when a wonam makes the first move, it frequently means she has bad intentions.
Contrary to what I was brought up to believe, women are very exploitative, and men are not all keen on leaping into bed at the first chance. Some are actually faithful.
Also, men do have preferences, and may not go for other types (not just legs, breasts, but height, shape of face, race, etc).
Keep trying- you dont want them all, a few good ones will keep you very happy! less...
