OK Honestly this is not bashing but a needed to understand. what are you looking for in woman? why would you tell a woman that she is your lover and best freind but not good enough for a relationship? what is the story behind that? Isnt a lover and best freind what most men want?
Having experinced this site and finding that there is a difference in the meaning of BBW. I would love to have input from both men and woman of what the meaning means. I think this may help many people on this site and who is looking for what based on that description.