When I set up my profile on the site I had hoped to create one that gave some sense of who I really am without coming on too strong or placing a whole lot of pressure or unfair expectations on someone interested in getting to know me. I think simple and honest is a really good way to go.
I still believe in love and would really like to find a man who is right for me and thinks I'm right for him. I get enough responses but spend a lot of time trying to deal with questions about what I'm wear more...
When I set up my profile on the site I had hoped to create one that gave some sense of who I really am without coming on too strong or placing a whole lot of pressure or unfair expectations on someone interested in getting to know me. I think simple and honest is a really good way to go.
I still believe in love and would really like to find a man who is right for me and thinks I'm right for him. I get enough responses but spend a lot of time trying to deal with questions about what I'm wearing and if I have a cam, etc.
The opposite happens, too. I find myself searching for ways to kindly say that I can't promise love and a lifetime together with someone I've only chatted and e-mailed with for a week and a half.
I'm not sure where the problem is. I'm thinking I really need to update or rework my profile in some way, but I can't figure out what is wrong with it.
I'd love to have comments or feedback from anyone who'd like to share their opinion. Thanks so much ... I really appreciate it! less...
Personally i don't think there's nothing wrong with your profile. U really seem very attractive to me, and probably it depends on the men that had written previously to you.
thank you truefriend in promoting me here lol....yes, I do suffer from foot in mouth disease now and then myself
I thought that your profile pretty much laid your cards on the table, just didn't like the part about looking for someone under 6 foot tall (ahem!) though. But a little more cleavage in your pics and investing in a webcam wouldn't hurt either (just kidding just kidding <ducking from flying objects>)
Seriously, I thought your profile was fine. Good luck in your quest.
You are attractive and your profile is provacative in a tastefully sexy way, except if I were really interested, I would get as far as "smokes regularly", think 'what a shame', and move on.
Thanks. And good luck with the male perspecitve. Not many men make an effort at posts like this on this site. There are a few (Bizzle, Butterbll, Thunderheart, and some others) that will make a genuine effort. Others will make comments...but not much thought goes into them beyond the zipper. Their belts restrict the blood flow to the brain. Case in point below.(LOL!) Good luck!
Thanks you guys, for the really great feedback. You are beautiful, inside and out.
Southerngrace ... you may be right about adding that line, and I'll see what I can do.
And truefriend I really appreciate your perspectives. Your right, I am looking for love. I probably have spent too much time online in the last month hoping that a wink or e-mail would turn out to be something great, and I have neglected the rest of my life and friends in the process. I've always thought your post wer more...
Thanks you guys, for the really great feedback. You are beautiful, inside and out.
Southerngrace ... you may be right about adding that line, and I'll see what I can do.
And truefriend I really appreciate your perspectives. Your right, I am looking for love. I probably have spent too much time online in the last month hoping that a wink or e-mail would turn out to be something great, and I have neglected the rest of my life and friends in the process. I've always thought your post were very caring and insightful. Thank you. :)
one2one: no problem with your profile, only with the responders! From what you've written (and your pic), I gather you are an attractive, intelligent, independent woman looking for what we all want: love! I think it's most difficult to meet people online, as I have found that some men are too clingy, too soon. I think that many men have the idea that just because it's cyber-dating, that the same "take your time" rules don't apply. You have to remain firm and true to yourself. And more...
one2one: no problem with your profile, only with the responders! From what you've written (and your pic), I gather you are an attractive, intelligent, independent woman looking for what we all want: love! I think it's most difficult to meet people online, as I have found that some men are too clingy, too soon. I think that many men have the idea that just because it's cyber-dating, that the same "take your time" rules don't apply. You have to remain firm and true to yourself. And one more thing-- do not use this venue exclusively. Make time for other ventures. Go out with friends. I really feel that the likelihood of my meeting (and liking) someone I have met online is slim to none. I am more likely to feel comfortable around someone I have personally met and can get a "feel" for, in person. Don't let your success (or lack of) determine how you percieve yourself--OR your profile. Your profile is FINE. less...
I think you have a good profile. It's just that most men don't care much for themselves so therefore can not care for anyone else. I'm not saying all men, just some. Unfortunately most of them come here and cloud the ones who have good intentions. I haven't met any that were serious. The only suggestion I have is add "Serious Inquires Only"... :-)
