There's this guy that I dated when I was a senior in high school that I consider to still be a friend. Anyway, he and I would have occasional sex every now and then..not that often but at least a few times a year. Here's the problem, we talk a lot and sometimes we argue because we can't agree on anything. I find myself wanting to be more than just friends, but at the same time, I don't really want to be in a relationship with him. What do you do in circumstances like this? Do anyone else hav more...
There's this guy that I dated when I was a senior in high school that I consider to still be a friend. Anyway, he and I would have occasional sex every now and then..not that often but at least a few times a year. Here's the problem, we talk a lot and sometimes we argue because we can't agree on anything. I find myself wanting to be more than just friends, but at the same time, I don't really want to be in a relationship with him. What do you do in circumstances like this? Do anyone else have friends that you can call on to be your lover when you need one? less...
I sort of have someone like that, but we have never consummated it. We dated off and on thru high school, and even when my ex and I separated the very first time, years ago. We saw each other again this time around, but there was no real spark. So the ties that bind are no longer there. Pity..I used to think he was so HOT! Now, I think he's an illiterate moron who can't hold a job! LOL! This sort of ties into the blog from Dirkdig-- about bad boys. He was a bad boy of sorts, still is. Bu more...
I sort of have someone like that, but we have never consummated it. We dated off and on thru high school, and even when my ex and I separated the very first time, years ago. We saw each other again this time around, but there was no real spark. So the ties that bind are no longer there. Pity..I used to think he was so HOT! Now, I think he's an illiterate moron who can't hold a job! LOL! This sort of ties into the blog from Dirkdig-- about bad boys. He was a bad boy of sorts, still is. But, I'm just not attracted to him anymore. Oh well.--True less...
I too have a similar situation, have known my friend and lover since we were 7 years old!
At school we were friends, at college we were lovers, as time went on we went our seperate ways into that adult world but always kept in touch as good friends do.
The right time just never seemed to happen for us...when i was single he wasn't and when he was, i wasn't..and when we both were, it was too scary to even think about.
We still have friends in common who know and accept our situation, althoug more...
I too have a similar situation, have known my friend and lover since we were 7 years old!
At school we were friends, at college we were lovers, as time went on we went our seperate ways into that adult world but always kept in touch as good friends do.
The right time just never seemed to happen for us...when i was single he wasn't and when he was, i wasn't..and when we both were, it was too scary to even think about.
We still have friends in common who know and accept our situation, although in the past, they have commented that we should either go for it or break it off completely, but to do that both of us feel that we would lose the friendship that we have.
This isnt a regular hook up, only on those occassions when we need each other or want to have the pleasure of seeing each other.
I cannot imagine being with him in a relationship, but on the other hand I cannot imagine him not being in my life ever again. less...