Why is that women ignore or don't answer a Hello or a wink when I send them .Is it me or are they taken or just not interested .

Hi There,

More detail needed in the profile and a photo would help.
Good luck.

Saw your comment and I think that there might be a couple of reasons. First, I know that I like to see who I am interested in. A picture goes a long way. Let's face it there has to be some physical attraction for some people and others it does not matter. Secondly, I think it is because your profile is so limited as to what you have up there.
Hope that helps and good luck.

I have to agree with the others. Also, they may not be a full-paying member. I used to pay but I haven't paid in a while, so the website won't let me respond.


Melissa

I think that women respond better to a photo and perhaps a email over a wink. We men are visual as well but am happy for an initial wink methinks.

Speaking for myself, I really want some sense of who a man is. A photo is great and so is enough info about who you are and what you're looking for ... otherwise, there's just not enough to go on.

Also, I think most women (myself included) aren't here to hurt anyone's feelings; we know that if we send even a kind rejection it may hurt because rejection is hard to take.

It's hard to give, too.

A lot of people won't respond to a wink with out a Photo.If you are not open enough to post a photo.That inaction sends up red flags for a lot of people.I my self am wary of responding to a Photo less wink. That is my humble opinion.

I can't speak for all women, but for me, I want to see a face, a picture, before I answer a wink. Unless the profile is so very very good. I will not reply to a wink without a picture of the person. With a picture I know you're serious.

Aimee

It's probably because you don't have a picture posted. you might want to post one.

Kat

There could be several reasons some don't answer. Some may not be members and can't write to say hello. Other may not want to answer someone without a pics. Then there are those that just don't care enough to answer back.

It is because you don'y have a picture

I usually check out the profile of the person winking, and if there is any reason I might not find us to be compatable, I don't wink back. I find it saves alot of frustration to not wink at everyone. I *REALLY* put alot of stock in profiles; they are there for a reason. I take full advantage of the "screening" opportunity. I figure: if there's something there that is not my cup of tea, then it's just best not to start something. I think alot of women do this. We don't intend for   more...

I usually check out the profile of the person winking, and if there is any reason I might not find us to be compatable, I don't wink back. I find it saves alot of frustration to not wink at everyone. I *REALLY* put alot of stock in profiles; they are there for a reason. I take full advantage of the "screening" opportunity. I figure: if there's something there that is not my cup of tea, then it's just best not to start something. I think alot of women do this. We don't intend for this practice of not responding to be rude, we are just being practical. Besides, it's not required to respond to a wink. It's great to get them, and there are some I WILL reply to, just not that often. (I NEVER reply to persons with no pic listed, or pics that are blatantly "fake" or rude...just a hint) less...

honesty, theres no prifile to respond too ! ! !